A bit of confusion sets in as the circumstances begin to change. Don`t worry -- it isn`t all in your head! Someone else is being irrational, and there`s not much you can do about it. Responding in kind only adds fuel to the fire. If you really try, you can find the will to rise above it. Draw on the wisdom of those who`ve already been through this. Talking to an older friend or relative can do a lot to soothe your nerves. Make a long-distance call tonight or send a letter that`s long overdue.